I’ve been MIA for roughly three months now, for which I am deeply sorry to those of you who follow my blog. But, I’ve been silent for good reason. I’ve been hiding a monumental secret.
Our second round of IVF worked! I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant with an incredibly resilient baby girl.
It doesn’t feel quite real yet. Even as I’m watching my body change to make room for baby, I can’t believe I’m pregnant. I’ve seen her move like a maniac on an ultrasound and heard the sound of her beautifully strong heartbeat, but it still seems so surreal. I’m not sure when it will truly register. Will it be the first time I can feel her kick? Or perhaps it won’t fully sink in until she’s in my arms? I guess time will tell. When you spend so many years hoping for something only to be consistently disappointed, it makes it a little hard to believe when that almost forgotten dream becomes a reality.
But now, let me get something straight. That doesn’t mean I’m not over the moon with excitement. And I’m already completely in awe of her. She’s an absolute miracle. And yes, I know all children, in general, are a miracle, but she’s managed to take it up a notch. Between two IVF cycles, we had 25 embryos. Out of all 25 embryos, she’s the only one that survived. That in and of itself, is pretty amazing.
I’m excited to be back in the blogosphere and sharing our story; just because I’ve been silent doesn’t mean I’ve run out of things to say. Thank you to all of you who have followed our story, shared in our heartbreak and celebrated our victories. The story isn’t over; in fact, it’s just starting to get good.